It's a strange time to feel lonely with lockdown easing. And yet, my heart aches for connection and validation.
We know that desire is insidious, and that inner happiness doesn't come from things. But does desire ever make us happy, or just not unhappy?
How do you create intimacy: does it come naturally to you, do you have to make time for it or do you fear it? And can you find it within yourself?
Can I see others for who they truly are, or for who I want them to be? Too often we equate dependency with love.
No matter our self-growth, once our ego gets triggered it's hard to see the bigger picture. Here's a trick to quickly disengage!
Whatever is going on in my life is not an excuse for how I'm feeling, and especially not for how I'm acting. But how to stop reacting and respond instead?
At the start, both parties are looking for compatibility. But are you seeing the other person really for who they are, or who you want them to be?
Has there has ever been this much supply and demand on dating apps? I wonder if we should be more careful in giving our heart's attention away.
I'm desperate for romance and intimacy, but as soon as people get close to me I either push them away or get really obsessive? Disorganised attachment baby!