It’s strange how one person’s dislike for us can invade our mind. We can even become obsessed with the supposed hate we feel from someone else. Continue reading They don’t really hate YOU!
Put me in a room full of strangers, and within minutes I have singled out the person I will crush on for the next few weeks. Continue reading Fast crushes and easy heartbreaks
Like marriage, friendship cannot survive long term if one doesn’t at least give the semblance to care. When one’s feelings are hurt, someone needs to do the work to overcome it. When it is always the same person, how could … Continue reading Willing to be a bad friend – perfectionism in friendship
After watching Freeman Dyson speak about his time with the Royal Air force during World War II in A Glorious Accident, I got to thinking about the notion of criminality. Ego’s, which are often blamed for crimes, start as inherently … Continue reading Moral consistency in a burning world
Since i quit the corporate life last year, I’ve had to really face my definition of friendship. Many friends are made out of convenience, similar interests or the wider friend group. I thought I had realised that friendships, like any … Continue reading how to make old friends and lose new ones