The art of prioritising

Roles and responsibilities are piling up, and so does the guilt associated with them. When it is impossible to do everything, what do we do first?

Have you grown into independence?

All humans start life as helpless children, and not all grow up to be independent adults. Stepping into adulthood requires embracing risk.

Raising kids? Avoid this ONE THING

It’s very simple advice, and most parents go the other way. Raising kids has a million rules, but there is only one to follow to assure a loving upbringing.

We Are Both: Parenting and Apocalypse Now

Show me someone not terrified of becoming their parents. The only way most people learn to cope with their childhoods is to vilify their parents, in a childlike ‘I-wasn’t-given-what-I-am-owed’ kind of way. Reparenting yourself often becomes a race against time to break the cycle, process your pain and heal your family – before you start…