As a childless gal, I wouldn't dare to make this statement myself. Do people have children when they want to be unconditionally loved?
Desire to parent means wanting to BE parented
Raising kids? Avoid this ONE THING
It's very simple advice, and most parents go the other way. Raising kids has a million rules, but there is only one to follow to assure a loving upbringing.
Reparent Your Soul 